The great journey of life is finding your purpose, the purpose is based off yourself & where you fit in, to find yourself first starts with accepting all of you, even your flaws. Understanding your flaws give you The Greatest perspective and analysis of where you fit in to understand your purpose being humble and wanting to fix flaws is the Will of the one God who wants to make you better for his purpose and with your purpose. Joining of two purposes, like a marriage is the greatest joy because true love and true blessings arrives, went to become one for a purpose.